I like sex not dating
But with age and experiences — and, yes, relationships — we get to know more.And we grow more comfortable in our own skins and with our own decisions and with the quirks that make us unique. There’s so much porn on this planet that it sort of sets a really weird standard for what real sex should look like. Real sex looks almost nothing like that: Most of us don’t have 24/7/365 airbrush tans, most of us don’t orgasm at the same time as our partners, most of us are a little awkward and messy, and most of us don’t bang our pizza delivery men.(And if you do, I’m just ordering from all the wrong parlors.) It’s become one woman’s mission to make sure people learn and accept that real sex is to porn, essentially, as real life is to the movies: Movies and porn are fantasy versions of something real and generally, on the surface, less attractive.I’m pretty sure I’m not into girls because, with my largely female social circle, I’d have figured it out by now, right?
I do like sex, but I am not an addict."When asked if he thinks his sexual appetite is a healthy one, Scott told E! "At the club, Scott and his entourage sat in a VIP area.
Similarly, most of us can’t orgasm on command (hell, a lot of us have a hard time with orgasms in general) or get intimate with people we barely know.
That doesn’t mean we shouldn’t play video games or watch porn–we just need to understand that real life and real sex are a lot different from what comes out of a glowing screen with the push of a button.
Cindy Gallop would be considered a cougar, and she’s got a decent dose of sexual experience under her fierce and fashionable belt–and she got annoyed that a lot of the real sex she was having with guys seemed almost entirely based on what guys had seen in porn–because guess what?
Most women don’t enjoy that in real life, since we need more time (and usually more foreplay) to get us going than the typical wham, bam, thank you ma’am that porn presents. As she put it, having such easy access to porn teaches guys (and girls!